Horse Training: Toothpicks and 75 Million Mistakes

Toothpicks and 75 Million Mistakes

Did you know you can make 75 million toothpicks from a cord of wood?

That’s a L-O-T of toothpicks!

Did you also know you could make 75
million mistakes with a horse if you
don’t know what you’re doing?

75 million?

Well…maybe not.

But you CAN make a lot mistakes…
dangerous ones…if you aren’t informed.

That’s one of the BIG reasons we do
what we do here.

We want you to be informed.

Take Sam Burrell for instance.

When he was interviewed, he revealed his
philosophy and thinking about horses.

When you know what a trainer’s philosophy is,
you begin to understand how and why he gets
the results he does.

That’s why I ask ‘em that question.

Sam’s philosophy is:

“Be as kind as possible and
be forgiving as necessary.

Be looking for the success or
slightest try.

Get the horse to enjoy
working WITH you instead
of working FOR you.

Always be training for tomorrow”

As you can see, Sam’s philosophy
isn’t explained in just one sentence.

His philosophy has very serious implications.

First, “be as kind as possible and
forgiving as necessary.”

Being kind with the horse is paramount
because you can set out to teach him to be
mean without meaning too.

And when he’s not doing something you
want, “be forgiving as necessary.”

If he messes up, there’s no need to
kick and scream on him. That’ll just
make things worse.

But also, if he argues with you then
you gotta be firm and be the leader by demanding
and getting what you ask if at all possible.

When you get it, that’s the end of it.

You don’t hold a grudge and think,
“Stupid horse…who does he think he is?!!”

When you win, you win. That’s the end
of it.

And that goes right into part 2 of Sam’s
philosophy: Be looking for the success or
the slightest try.”

Why?

Think of it like this.

You’re a teacher.

You have a very timid student.

You ask him what 5×5 is.

He just looks at you.

Again…you ask, “What is 5×5?”

He looks down…afraid to answer
because he’s not sure.

Thankfully, you have patience.

So you ask again.

“What’s 5×5?”

Unsure and desperate to not look a
fool he barely whispers the answer as he
looks down to the ground again and says,…

“….twenty f-i-v-e???”

“What?”, you ask. “What did you say?”

Again, with zero confidence the child
whispers, “…twenty f-i-v-e ??”

You ask, “Did you say twenty five?”

He looks up at you with those big
glassy eyes and cautiously nods his head “yes”.

“THAT’s RIGHT!!!”, you blurt.

Eureka! The boy got it!!!!!!!!

If you as the teacher had not sought out
the slightest try or success,…do you think you
would’ve gotten more tries from him?

Had that child been badgered, what would
his chances at success in education have been?

That’s the thing with horses.

You gotta look for that try…that success.

A try is every bit as good as a success.

The success will follow.

But if the horse is trying and you’re not
allowing that try to count…Mr. Horse may stop
trying or worse…fight with you.

And that’s a fight you WILL NOT win!

Sam’s part 3 of his philosophy is: Get
the horse to enjoy working with you, not for you.

Yeah…he may be just an animal, but he’s
an emotional being that’s easily upset.

Again, an upset horse is not an
easy-to-work-with horse or a safe horse.

I can tell you there are people who’d
argue with me and say, “You’re being ridiculous.
You gotta get that horse doing what you want
and there lots of times you have to get ugly
with him.”

Although you can get a horse doing what you
want by brute and force, we’ve found that only
the person who works with that horse can ride him
safely – at least…that’s my experience.

But a horse that’s chosen to do the work
you ask of him and does it in agreement with you
is a safer, more partnership-oriented horse.

Pretty cool stuff when you think about it, eh?

You can see more of what Sam reveals by
clicking on the following:

http://www.horsetrainingresources.com/samburrell

Lastly, Sam said “Always be training for tomorrow.”

What does that mean?

It means quit your horse when he’s
done what you set out to do.

Yeah, you can ride him around and just enjoy
riding him after he’s done what you ask…but
stop the teaching already.

At least, stop the drilling of asking
for it again, and again, and again.

Always have your horse in the frame of
mind to be ready for you tomorrow.

Don’t get him “dreading” to be with you.

Get him wanting to be with you.

And as Sam says, “Quit him on a good
note and try the horse again tomorrow and you’d
swear he was up all night studying how to do
what you asked of him.”

http://www.horsetrainingresources.com/samburrell
Ok...That's it for today - Stay safe around your horses.

Charlie

 Here's a note from Cindy S. sent a while back after we
 released our "One Rein Stop" DVD:

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 "Wow it seems you are reading my mind again. I was invited
 to ride on new years day by a friend of mine.( I thought)
 she gave me a horse she said was calm.  about the third time
 around the arena and this horse went bonkers.  because of
 practicing the one rein stop on my horse it came automatic.

 I was so excited it actually saved my hide that day.  It
 works charlie, it actually works and I'm sure this horse had
 no prior experience with anybody practicing the one rein
 stop and it still worked. thanx so much for putting it out
 there that is one of the first things a new rider/horse owner
 should know.

 My 2010 will be a much better year since I am alive and all
 heee-heee keep up the good work I thank you from the bottom
 of my heart and the top of my head LOL

 cindyloo"

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You can see Paul's "One Rein Stop" DVD here:

http://www.horsetrainingresources.com/dvds/paulesh-onereinstop/

Me, Me, Me In Horse Training

It’s about me.

  Not me myself.

  It's about the word 'me'.

  One of the most useful and effective
  horse training tricks I've learned from trainers
  is that of Aaron Mills.

  I mean...I REALLY like this.  I use it a lot.

  You see, when we filmed Aaron, he took
  on a horse with problems the owner thought were
  insurmountable.

  www.horsetrainingresources.com/aaronmills
The owners couldn't catch him to
  put a halter on him  - much less saddle him.

  From the horse's point of view the
  saddle might as well have been a mountain lion.

  So as Aaron typically does, he started
  from ground zero.

  Put the horse in the round pen, get him
  moving, and see where he's at.

  After the horse circled several times
  Aaron would ask him to whoa.

  When he stopped, Aaron said,

    'Me, me, me'

  Of course, this was new to the horse
  and he didn't think anything of it.

  While stopped, Aaron approached the horse.

  Aaron repeated 'Me'.

  As Aaron got closer the horse would
  lean  to the direction he was getting ready
  to run toward.

  Aaron takes another step and then....

     Off went the horse.

  Aaron knew the horse wouldn't stay there.
  He was ready for it and expected it.

  So the horse takes off away from Aaron
  in the round pen.

  Aaron drives him around and around.

  Soon Aaron asks him again to whoa.

  When he does, Aaron says 'me, me, me'
  and then approaches him again.  He repeats 'me'.

  Again the horse leans...ready to leave.

  Soon he leaves and the process happens
  again and again.

  As you watch this, a metamorphasis starts
  to take place.

  Sooner 'n you'd think, the horse begins
  to understand what Aaron wants when he says 'me'.

  But even though he knows what it means
  he doesn't trust Aaron....yet.

  Interestingly, Aaron is presenting the
  horse a choice.

  He's not forcing him into submission.

  He's talking the horse into making a choice
  to either stay with Aaron, or take off.

  Aaron just keeps chippin' away at the
  horse's decision to leave him.

  Each time he leaves, Aaron makes it harder
  for him to leave.

  Again...chippin' away at the horse's decision
  to leave Aaron.

  Pretty soon, you see the metamorphasis go
  to level two.

  The horse now decides that he may stay with
  Aaron because it beats runnin' away all the time.

  That running away is for the birds - it's
  tiring.  It's hard.

  Still, the horse has doubts.

  He's not as inclined to run from Aaron but
  he's not about to let a saddle touch him either.

  Again...chippin' away at the horse's decision
  to leave.

  Aaron keeps up the 'me,me,me'.

  The horse has now figured out that 'me' means
  to stay with Aaron and pay attention to him.

  And THIS, my friend, is the magic in Aaron's method.

  Once that horse learns what 'me' means....

  Once that horse made the decision it was
  a lot easier to stay with Aaron rather than run...

  Once that horse focused on Aaron because
  he knew 'me' meant listen to me, pay attention, or
  your decision not to won't be pleasant...

  Aaron had him.
 www.horsetrainingresources.com/aaronmills
Get that horse connected with you in this
manner and you will be shocked how that transfers to
the saddle.

When you're out riding your horse, you're
very often the only friend that horse has.

And because they are such social animals,
you can get 'em zero'd in on you.

They soon become so familiar with the 'me'
that they trust it.

When they trust it, it's something they know.

When it's something they know, it gives them
confidence.

And when you're out riding and your horse
spooks, it's an extrememly valuable tool to use while
on his back.

When he spooks and suddenly forgets you're
on his back, you can remind him very quickly and begin
using 'me'.

He knows 'me'.

He's learned to come back to you.

To listen to you.

To look to you to tell him that all is okay.

It's a technique I think everyone should know.

You'd be shocked how effective it is.

If you want to more about it, click the following:
 www.horsetrainingresources.com/aaronmills
  Here's an example of how I took Aaron's technique
  a little further.

  In our Jesse Beery Horse Training Course, there's
  a section where he uses metal bowls tied together with
  ropes as a specific training tool.

  http://www.horsetrainingresources.com/beery/It looks sort of like a wind chime when you've
  tied them together correctly.

  Anyway, when they clang together it's really
  scary sounding to a horse.

  If you stand outside the pen and shake the
  bowls on the rope to clang together, watch
  your horse's reaction.

  The ol' head will come up.

  His eyes will fly open.

  He'll wonder what on earth that is.

  And doing it outside the pen is the first place
  to do it because it's far enough away from him that he
  won't feel as threatened.

  I want him to first get used to the sound
  before it gets close to him.

  The next step is I bring it into the round pen.

  And I just lay them in the middle and walk away.

  I watch.

  Those bowls are like the 800lb gorrilla in the room.

  The horse knows dang good and well they're there.

  His curiosity will cause him to eventually
  check them out. (Curiosity, by the way, is a very
  powerful 'built-in' tool you often use in horse
  training)

  He'll cautiously sneak up to them.

  Ready to jump back and leave in case they
  come and get him.

  Soon, he'll get fairly comfortable with them.

  That's when I do the next step.

  This next step is like the super glue of
  getting your horse to stay with you when
  he wants to leave.

  You'll be amazed at how you can get your
  horse to make the choice to stay with you when he's
  scared...or to run.

  And you CAN get him staying with you.

  It'll send chills up your spine when you
  watch him decide to stay with you when he's scared.
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 OK... that's it for today.  Stay safe around your horses!

 Charlie

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Horse Training Tips: 9/11, Safety and Horse Training

9/11, Safety and Horse Training

Here’s my 9/11 experience and how it relates to safety and preparation – including with your horses.

[This is a long email - there is a 9/11 special at the end if you don’t have time to read it.  I first sent this last year.]

Today I want to share my heart about something – and how 9/11 affected us and strengthened our resolve in many ways.

Don’t worry – I’ll tie it all in with handling your horses.  There’s still something to learn here.

I want to take you back to early August, 2001.

I took my entire family (all 7 of us) to Pennsylvania to visit my side of the family.  Most of them are scattered around South East PA.  My father was raised on a dairy farm (and milked by hand twice a day) and used horses as a kid for all kinds of tasks including pulling their milk wagon on their daily route to customers and stores.

As part of that trip my wife and I wanted to take the kids to New York City to experience the big city.  Now – we’re from Nebraska – think rolling hills, corn, soybeans, cattle, etc.  So a trip to The Big Apple would be quite a culture shock for us.

I think it was Tuesday morning – we took off early and drove to NYC.  We started on the Jersey side of the river and took a ferry trip to Ellis Island, went by the Statue of Liberty, and saw the city skyline from the river.  I wanted to do that to prepare my kids for the city.

It was awesome.

We then drove through one of the tunnels (Lincoln?) and right down into lower Manhattan.  We parked underground, below one of the financial buildings, immediately next to the World Trade Center towers.

That driving/parking experience alone was quite different than what we’re used to.  We did the typical tourist things like ride the subway to Times Square, walked around Broadway, etc.

You might say we were “country Hicks” in the big city :>) and probably stood out like a sore thumb.  Not quite like the Beverly Hillbillies, but you get the picture.

Ya know something interesting – for years I had heard that New Yorkers were rude and impolite.  What we experienced couldn’t be farther from the truth.

Every cop and every person we talked to were very helpful, engaging and polite.  Perhaps even more so than folks in Omaha.  We’re not shy and don’t hesitate to walk up to strangers and start a conversation.   It was a great experience.
(although a few questionable characters were on the subway that refused to make eye contact.)

We finished that day by going to the observation deck of the World Trade Center South Tower- I believe it was 111 stories high?  Just riding the elevators up that many floors was an amazing trip.

But stepping out on that roof and looking down was something to behold.  Looking down on all the other buildings, looking down on small airplanes and helicopters flying below us, seeing for miles along the river and all the little specks below.  It makes you feel so small.

Well – spin forward about a month to 9/11/2001.  We’re back home in Nebraska – Southwest of Omaha.

You know what happened that morning so I don’t have to describe it.

I was in my truck heading to see a client in rural Iowa and my wife called me and gave me the news about the first plane hitting the tower.  As soon as I answered I knew something grave had taken place.  She stood there
in unbelief – she could hardly talk.

We had just been standing on top of one of those two towers a month earlier.  It shook us. It was fresh in our minds.  It shook us to the core.

I got to my appointment but everyone was glued to the TV watching the event take place.  Just as I got there the second place hit.

I had to head home.  I was fearful for what was taking place and I needed to be with my family.

I drove fast to get home, listening on the radio the whole time and talking to my wife off and on.  I started making mental plans for preparation – you’ll understand why later.

The other plane hit the Pentagon and the plane in PA hit the ground.  What was going on?  Is any place safe?  Would this happen all over the USA?

A little later President Bush ordered all planes in US airspace to be grounded.  He was rushed to Air Force One and was in the air with F16 escorts.  They didn’t want him at the Whitehouse or other locations in the event they were targets as well.

We were now in the highest alert ever.  Our country was under attack and we didn’t know what to expect.

Our place in the country is in the frequent flight path of Offutt Air Force Base.  Offutt is the underground command post for our forces and, in the event of major threat situations – including nuclear war, would direct our nuclear response missiles, planes, ships, etc. around the world from here.  It’s a massive, hardened series of bunkers deep underground that is able to survive a nuclear attack.

They decided to fly Pres. Bush to Offutt and put him underground until they figured out what all was going on across the country.

Keep in mind – there were NO planes in the sky. It was eerie – no sounds of jets, no contrails. I told my kids to come out and look and listen – they may never experience this again in their lifetime.

There was a hint in the local news that Pres. Bush might come to Offutt and go underground until things settled down.

I was outside and here comes Air Force One heading to Offutt – he flew right over my place.  My immediate response was to say a prayer for our President, our armed forces and all those who will be responsible for carrying out our response to this tragedy.  I prayed for the families of the victims in NYC, PA and DC.

While I was shook – I also trusted that our forces around the world would respond appropriately and we would use our intelligence services to our benefit.

What’s all this have to do with horses?
Hang on – we’re almost there…..

If you’ve read my emails for very long you know I’m all about safety.  Train your horses to respect your space, you be in control and have them respond to your commands.  Wear a helmet.  Don’t let your horse decide when he wants move or where – he looks to YOU for direction.  He is trained not to spook under normal conditions.  And on and on….

Well, what you probably don’t know about me is that I am into preparation and planning.

If you looked into my truck you’d see tire chains, water, jumper cables, tow straps, tools, non-perishable food, spare V-Belts, etc.  I like to be prepared in all areas that I have control over.

I am also an Amateur Radio Operator (ham radio) and used to be actively involved in emergency communications for the various groups such as the Red Cross, National Weather Service and providing structured communications for mass-casualty drills, etc.

I have also taught survival skills, wilderness camping, and related stuff.  I like to be ready.

I could go on and on but you get the idea.

So for me – that mindset carries right over into anything I do – including when it comes to horse training and maintaining control.

I do my best to NOT be surprised.  I want horses to KNOW what to expect and RESPOND when
you direct them.

I urge you to take control of your horses as well.  If you have a horse you’re handling and are fearful or are putting yourself in danger because you know you don’t have control – then there’s no better time than right now to start changing that.

If you don’t – you may get hurt, broken or paralyzed.  [Did you know horseback riding is 20 times more  dangerous than riding a motorcycle?]

If you need help getting control of your horse then it all starts with knowledge.  You need to learn first and then go out and convey what you’ve learned by applying that knowledge in your handling and training your horses.

There is no such thing as a horse that is 100% safe.

All horses are wired to respond to threats.  However, if you take time to learn and control you horse, even in spooky situations for him, and take the time to build that trust relationship with him – then he will look to YOU for direction when things go bonkers.  That, my friends, is where you want to be.

I don’t want to find myself on top of a 1,200 pound bundle of muscle and trigger-happy nerves and have him go off under me
when confronted by everyday threats.  It’s a serious accident looking for a place to happen.

Our Jesse Beery course book is a great way to learn how to solve those pesky and dangerous problems with your horse.  You can get one free as part of the offer below.

Also – look over our selection of professional training DVDs.  There’s decades of training wisdom there you can take advantage of.  Again – our 9/11 special lets you get one free.

I might suggest something on groundwork and related stuff like Sue Robertson or Diana Quintana. Or Vickie Weigel’s
“How To Get rid of the Horse Eating Monster” DVD.

You can see them all here:

http://www.horsetrainingresources.com/DVD.html

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A Special Promotion to Celebrate 9/11

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So here’s a 9/11 special for you – it’s a bit different because you can pick your bonus.

Here’s how it works:

Buy any TWO of our training DVDs and then pick one more for free.

For example:

- buy any two DVDs and pick ANY other DVD for free
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OK?  Just pick and pay for any two DVDs and get the
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Just enter what DVD you want (the third DVD title)
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This 9/11 special ends Monday.

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So there you go – if you read all that you can  perhaps understand our sensitivity to 9/11 and the  real threat we face in today’s world.

Be ready, learn to think and apply knowledge  and adjust as conditions change.

That is a good position to be in whether you are talking about national security, personal defense or riding horses.

For our family it’s all about placing our Trust in the Lord,  be ready to meet Him, prepare and help others.

We base our lives individually and as a family  around those foundations.

And now you (and a few thousand others) know a bit more  about us.  Thanks for reading.

Sincerely,

Charlie Hicks

P.S. One more thing – my father dropped out of college after his 3rd year to join the new Air Force and he flew fighters and bombers in Korea, WW II, and other theaters around the world.  He then went into the missile program and ended up at Offutt working on the planning for the famous SR-71 Blackbird deployment.  (He did get his college degree later in life.)

But I had those country genes in me – and I got a double major in agriculture and later went into computers and networks.  But I stayed close to the farm over the years and combined computers/networks with with serving ag-related businesses.  Now you know the REST of the story!