Toothpicks and 75 Million Mistakes
Did you know you can make 75 million toothpicks from a cord of wood?
That’s a L-O-T of toothpicks!
Did you also know you could make 75
million mistakes with a horse if you
don’t know what you’re doing?
75 million?
Well…maybe not.
But you CAN make a lot mistakes…
dangerous ones…if you aren’t informed.
That’s one of the BIG reasons we do
what we do here.
We want you to be informed.
Take Sam Burrell for instance.
When he was interviewed, he revealed his
philosophy and thinking about horses.
When you know what a trainer’s philosophy is,
you begin to understand how and why he gets
the results he does.
That’s why I ask ‘em that question.
Sam’s philosophy is:
“Be as kind as possible and
be forgiving as necessary.
Be looking for the success or
slightest try.
Get the horse to enjoy
working WITH you instead
of working FOR you.
Always be training for tomorrow”
As you can see, Sam’s philosophy
isn’t explained in just one sentence.
His philosophy has very serious implications.
First, “be as kind as possible and
forgiving as necessary.”
Being kind with the horse is paramount
because you can set out to teach him to be
mean without meaning too.
And when he’s not doing something you
want, “be forgiving as necessary.”
If he messes up, there’s no need to
kick and scream on him. That’ll just
make things worse.
But also, if he argues with you then
you gotta be firm and be the leader by demanding
and getting what you ask if at all possible.
When you get it, that’s the end of it.
You don’t hold a grudge and think,
“Stupid horse…who does he think he is?!!”
When you win, you win. That’s the end
of it.
And that goes right into part 2 of Sam’s
philosophy: Be looking for the success or
the slightest try.”
Why?
Think of it like this.
You’re a teacher.
You have a very timid student.
You ask him what 5×5 is.
He just looks at you.
Again…you ask, “What is 5×5?”
He looks down…afraid to answer
because he’s not sure.
Thankfully, you have patience.
So you ask again.
“What’s 5×5?”
Unsure and desperate to not look a
fool he barely whispers the answer as he
looks down to the ground again and says,…
“….twenty f-i-v-e???”
“What?”, you ask. “What did you say?”
Again, with zero confidence the child
whispers, “…twenty f-i-v-e ??”
You ask, “Did you say twenty five?”
He looks up at you with those big
glassy eyes and cautiously nods his head “yes”.
“THAT’s RIGHT!!!”, you blurt.
Eureka! The boy got it!!!!!!!!
If you as the teacher had not sought out
the slightest try or success,…do you think you
would’ve gotten more tries from him?
Had that child been badgered, what would
his chances at success in education have been?
That’s the thing with horses.
You gotta look for that try…that success.
A try is every bit as good as a success.
The success will follow.
But if the horse is trying and you’re not
allowing that try to count…Mr. Horse may stop
trying or worse…fight with you.
And that’s a fight you WILL NOT win!
Sam’s part 3 of his philosophy is: Get
the horse to enjoy working with you, not for you.
Yeah…he may be just an animal, but he’s
an emotional being that’s easily upset.
Again, an upset horse is not an
easy-to-work-with horse or a safe horse.
I can tell you there are people who’d
argue with me and say, “You’re being ridiculous.
You gotta get that horse doing what you want
and there lots of times you have to get ugly
with him.”
Although you can get a horse doing what you
want by brute and force, we’ve found that only
the person who works with that horse can ride him
safely – at least…that’s my experience.
But a horse that’s chosen to do the work
you ask of him and does it in agreement with you
is a safer, more partnership-oriented horse.
Pretty cool stuff when you think about it, eh?
You can see more of what Sam reveals by
clicking on the following:
http://www.horsetrainingresources.com/samburrell
Lastly, Sam said “Always be training for tomorrow.”
What does that mean?
It means quit your horse when he’s
done what you set out to do.
Yeah, you can ride him around and just enjoy
riding him after he’s done what you ask…but
stop the teaching already.
At least, stop the drilling of asking
for it again, and again, and again.
Always have your horse in the frame of
mind to be ready for you tomorrow.
Don’t get him “dreading” to be with you.
Get him wanting to be with you.
And as Sam says, “Quit him on a good
note and try the horse again tomorrow and you’d
swear he was up all night studying how to do
what you asked of him.”
http://www.horsetrainingresources.com/samburrell
Ok...That's it for today - Stay safe around your horses. Charlie Here's a note from Cindy S. sent a while back after we released our "One Rein Stop" DVD: -------------------------------------------------------------- "Wow it seems you are reading my mind again. I was invited to ride on new years day by a friend of mine.( I thought) she gave me a horse she said was calm. about the third time around the arena and this horse went bonkers. because of practicing the one rein stop on my horse it came automatic. I was so excited it actually saved my hide that day. It works charlie, it actually works and I'm sure this horse had no prior experience with anybody practicing the one rein stop and it still worked. thanx so much for putting it out there that is one of the first things a new rider/horse owner should know. My 2010 will be a much better year since I am alive and all heee-heee keep up the good work I thank you from the bottom of my heart and the top of my head LOL cindyloo" ------------------------------------------------------------- You can see Paul's "One Rein Stop" DVD here: http://www.horsetrainingresources.com/dvds/paulesh-onereinstop/