Me, Me, Me – Part 2

Last time I wrote about about Aaron
Mill’s ‘Me’ horse training technique.

www.horsetrainingresources.com/aaronmills

If you missed it you can read it you can
read it here:  http://askyourhorse.com/
(that’s a blog I write to occasionally)

So today I want to continue and talk
about how you can take it a step further
and use it with great results.

That said, here it is.

Let your horse check out the pans in
the middle of the pen.

He may or may not touch them.

Depends on the horse.

The thing about those pans is they
are shiny.  They look unsual.  They aren’t
something your horse normally sees.

I like to see him go up to them and
touch them but it’s okay if he doesn’t.

So, just watch him.

If he’s scared of them and he just
won’t go up to them and that’s as far as he’s
gonna go…at that point you found a
temporary impasse.

Notice I said ‘temporary’.

An impasse is good to find.

That way, you know what to work on.

So go back to the ‘Me’ and get him
following you. (Note: Do not do this unless
and until he’s following you like a magnet).

Then start walking around the pen.

Start stretching the ol’ comfort
zone by getting close to the pans.

How can you tell you’re getting too close?

He’ll look down at them and face them as
he walks by.

His body will be in a guarded mode.  You’ll
be able to tell – I guarantee it.

Anyway, just keep walking.

Always walk by the pans.

Do it with one eye…then the other.

That’s veddy veddy important.

Now as you approach the pans watch his
reaction.

As you see him growing concerned about
the pans, say…

‘Me..Me…Me’

Just like what Aaron shows in his DVD (the
same thing I described yesterday).

If you want to read about Aaron’s info,
click the following:

www.horsetrainingresources.com/aaronmills

What you want his attention on YOU!
As he starts getting spooked you’re teaching
him to look to you.

It’s sort of the equivalent of holding a
child’s hand as you take him to a closet
to show him there’s no monsters in it.

The idea is NOT to scare him. The idea is
to get him looking to you for security.

So, don’t try to overwhelm him with fear
and try to get him back to you.

Instead, do it gradually.

You won’t likely get him close to the
pans right off the bat.

If it looks like he’s getting too frightened
of the pans, simply guide him away (have him follow you)
using the ‘Me’ technique.

Walk a circle or two and approach it again.

Work towards getting closer and closer to
the pans.

Remember this won’t be something you can
do in 5 minutes.

It’ll take a while.

Some horses will do it faster ‘n others.

Again, it takes as long as it takes.

Eventually, you’ll get him walking past
them..next to them…and he’ll be fine with it.

Once he is, go to step three.

What is step three?

Stay tuned tomorrow.

Read more about Aaron Mill’s training DVD here:

www.horsetrainingresources.com/aaronmills

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That’s it for today – stay safe around your horses!

Charlie

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Me, Me, Me In Horse Training

It’s about me.

  Not me myself.

  It's about the word 'me'.

  One of the most useful and effective
  horse training tricks I've learned from trainers
  is that of Aaron Mills.

  I mean...I REALLY like this.  I use it a lot.

  You see, when we filmed Aaron, he took
  on a horse with problems the owner thought were
  insurmountable.

  www.horsetrainingresources.com/aaronmills
The owners couldn't catch him to
  put a halter on him  - much less saddle him.

  From the horse's point of view the
  saddle might as well have been a mountain lion.

  So as Aaron typically does, he started
  from ground zero.

  Put the horse in the round pen, get him
  moving, and see where he's at.

  After the horse circled several times
  Aaron would ask him to whoa.

  When he stopped, Aaron said,

    'Me, me, me'

  Of course, this was new to the horse
  and he didn't think anything of it.

  While stopped, Aaron approached the horse.

  Aaron repeated 'Me'.

  As Aaron got closer the horse would
  lean  to the direction he was getting ready
  to run toward.

  Aaron takes another step and then....

     Off went the horse.

  Aaron knew the horse wouldn't stay there.
  He was ready for it and expected it.

  So the horse takes off away from Aaron
  in the round pen.

  Aaron drives him around and around.

  Soon Aaron asks him again to whoa.

  When he does, Aaron says 'me, me, me'
  and then approaches him again.  He repeats 'me'.

  Again the horse leans...ready to leave.

  Soon he leaves and the process happens
  again and again.

  As you watch this, a metamorphasis starts
  to take place.

  Sooner 'n you'd think, the horse begins
  to understand what Aaron wants when he says 'me'.

  But even though he knows what it means
  he doesn't trust Aaron....yet.

  Interestingly, Aaron is presenting the
  horse a choice.

  He's not forcing him into submission.

  He's talking the horse into making a choice
  to either stay with Aaron, or take off.

  Aaron just keeps chippin' away at the
  horse's decision to leave him.

  Each time he leaves, Aaron makes it harder
  for him to leave.

  Again...chippin' away at the horse's decision
  to leave Aaron.

  Pretty soon, you see the metamorphasis go
  to level two.

  The horse now decides that he may stay with
  Aaron because it beats runnin' away all the time.

  That running away is for the birds - it's
  tiring.  It's hard.

  Still, the horse has doubts.

  He's not as inclined to run from Aaron but
  he's not about to let a saddle touch him either.

  Again...chippin' away at the horse's decision
  to leave.

  Aaron keeps up the 'me,me,me'.

  The horse has now figured out that 'me' means
  to stay with Aaron and pay attention to him.

  And THIS, my friend, is the magic in Aaron's method.

  Once that horse learns what 'me' means....

  Once that horse made the decision it was
  a lot easier to stay with Aaron rather than run...

  Once that horse focused on Aaron because
  he knew 'me' meant listen to me, pay attention, or
  your decision not to won't be pleasant...

  Aaron had him.
 www.horsetrainingresources.com/aaronmills
Get that horse connected with you in this
manner and you will be shocked how that transfers to
the saddle.

When you're out riding your horse, you're
very often the only friend that horse has.

And because they are such social animals,
you can get 'em zero'd in on you.

They soon become so familiar with the 'me'
that they trust it.

When they trust it, it's something they know.

When it's something they know, it gives them
confidence.

And when you're out riding and your horse
spooks, it's an extrememly valuable tool to use while
on his back.

When he spooks and suddenly forgets you're
on his back, you can remind him very quickly and begin
using 'me'.

He knows 'me'.

He's learned to come back to you.

To listen to you.

To look to you to tell him that all is okay.

It's a technique I think everyone should know.

You'd be shocked how effective it is.

If you want to more about it, click the following:
 www.horsetrainingresources.com/aaronmills
  Here's an example of how I took Aaron's technique
  a little further.

  In our Jesse Beery Horse Training Course, there's
  a section where he uses metal bowls tied together with
  ropes as a specific training tool.

  http://www.horsetrainingresources.com/beery/It looks sort of like a wind chime when you've
  tied them together correctly.

  Anyway, when they clang together it's really
  scary sounding to a horse.

  If you stand outside the pen and shake the
  bowls on the rope to clang together, watch
  your horse's reaction.

  The ol' head will come up.

  His eyes will fly open.

  He'll wonder what on earth that is.

  And doing it outside the pen is the first place
  to do it because it's far enough away from him that he
  won't feel as threatened.

  I want him to first get used to the sound
  before it gets close to him.

  The next step is I bring it into the round pen.

  And I just lay them in the middle and walk away.

  I watch.

  Those bowls are like the 800lb gorrilla in the room.

  The horse knows dang good and well they're there.

  His curiosity will cause him to eventually
  check them out. (Curiosity, by the way, is a very
  powerful 'built-in' tool you often use in horse
  training)

  He'll cautiously sneak up to them.

  Ready to jump back and leave in case they
  come and get him.

  Soon, he'll get fairly comfortable with them.

  That's when I do the next step.

  This next step is like the super glue of
  getting your horse to stay with you when
  he wants to leave.

  You'll be amazed at how you can get your
  horse to make the choice to stay with you when he's
  scared...or to run.

  And you CAN get him staying with you.

  It'll send chills up your spine when you
  watch him decide to stay with you when he's scared.
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 OK... that's it for today.  Stay safe around your horses!

 Charlie

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Give Something Away To Make Your Horse Valuable

Horse Training Tips: Give Something Away To Make Your Horse Valuable

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 ”Give Something Away To Make Your Horse Valuable”

It happened in July, 2001 in Cheltenham, England.

An elderly couple had a painting on
their wall for decades.

They were growing tired of it.

They decided to sell it but first
wanted to see what it was worth.

They figured it was worth a couple
thousand dollars.

They wrapped it in a blanket and took
it to an auction house for an appraisal.

Turns out the painting was a masterpiece
by 17th century French artist Nicolas Poussin.

It was valued at…

$600,000.00!

What a shocker!

That’s the perfect lesson of discovering
the value of something you didn’t know you have.

Think about this.

With horses, there’s something you have
that you can take but also have to give
away or it loses its value.

What is it?

Giving back.

Here’s what I mean.

If you drop your horse’s head down and
push him into the bridle…you have taken
his head.

Now you have to give back by releasing
his head once he gives.

He’ll elevate his head out of it and
then you can repeat it.

You do this in small increments.

Tell him that’s not good enough so,
“Please can I have some more?”

Horses learn through repetition.

Repetition becomes habit.

And habit is the end product be it
good or bad.

That’s a key horse training tip you
can take to the bank and draw upon
the rest of your life.

It’s what determines a broke horse.

Can you see there’s a mutual respect
thing going on here?

You ask your horse for something, he
offers it, and you say thank you by giving
it back.  Just like pressure-release.

If you don’t give back, you destroy
the mutual respect and before you know it,
your horse’s cooperation

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You see, this is part of the horse’s
justice system.

It’s how they work in the wild and you
gotta work with them how they work or you’ll
get into trouble.

I submit to you that this is one of the
most common, underlying reasons people have
trouble with horses.

This is the wisdom Kenny Scott revealed
in the interview we did with him.  If you
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One more thing.

Kenny reminds us to say thank you as
often as possible…just like you would family
and friends.

But the major difference is you want the
horse to respect you and do it willingly and
with trust.

Again, that’s the horse’s justice system.

I can’t think of a better plan to follow.

You could learn a lot from Kenny.  He’s a
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And that, my friend, is today’s tip.

Stay safe out there.

Charlie

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